What concrete efforts does an individual need to make to restore attachment, and what conditions are essential in the course of those efforts?
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개인이 애착을 회복하기 위해 필요한 구체적인 노력은 무엇이며, 그 노력의 과정에서 어떤 조건이 필수적인가요?
Doni's answer
I want to offer two approaches. The first is to be loved. It may be good to experience a romance in which you love each other even in each other's flaws, or to make a Golden Retriever that loves you unchanged your companion animal. The second is a rational effort: to logically understand and accept that human finitude is the most distinctive and beautiful element of being human. By treating the love of human finitude as an axiom, one can cope with the essential existential anxiety.
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두 가지 방법을 제시하고자 한다. 첫째는 사랑을 받는 것. 서로의 단점마저 사랑하는 연애를 경험하거나 변함없이 사랑해주는 골든 리트리버를 반려동물로 삼는 것이 좋을 것 같다. 두 번째는 이성적인 노력으로, 인간의 유한함이 인간의 가장 고유하고 아름다운 요소임을 논리적으로 이해하고 인정하는 것이다. 인간의 유한함을 사랑하는 공리로 본질적인 실존적 불안에 대처할 수 있다.
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- ↓When the attitude of 'an axiom of loving human finitude' collides with 'an obsession with solvable problems,' which principle should take precedence?
- ↓When the axiom of 'loving human finitude' and the everyday constraint of 'financial stability' collide, which principle should take precedence?
- ↓A study of 34,142 adults in Seoul found that people who use social media actively to connect feel lonelier, and 34.4% of users who compare themselves with others reported loneliness. You named being loved as the first way to recover a secure attachment. If our attempts to ease loneliness make it worse, what actually eases it?